Hamper Time, a Bummer and Vacation

Every night after his bath, Caden takes his dirty clothes from the bathroom to his bedroom and puts them in his clothes hamper. At least this is usually how it goes. Sometimes Caden puts Caden in the hamper.
The bummer is that we had our 4th ultrasound yesterday and we still have no definitive answer on whether the baby is a boy or a girl. We've finally just resigned ourselves to the fact that we'll have to wait until he or she makes their debut...
The irony of the whole thing is that with Caden we had every opportunity to find out and chose not to, and now we want to know and can't find out, even after 4 tries! We love surprises, but this is getting ridiculous!
Here is the baby's spine and ribs. At least we know it has those. Seriously though, the ultrasound was a blessing just being able to know that the baby is healthy. Praise God! Caden, of course, wants to do everything that mommy and daddy do, so he was all lined up and ready to go for his own ultrasound. We're pretty sure it would have confirmed the presence of fruit snacks.

We are headed to the beach today for several days, so we will be out of touch with our known world. We are celebrating our 6th anniversary as well as these last two years of our little 3-person family. That's all about to change, but we want to pause and reflect on how amazing this time has been. Having one child to focus all of our love and attention on and enjoy to the fullest has been a beautiful season in our lives, and we thank God for it. Now if He can just prepare us for baby #2, we would greatly appreciate it!

What do you think?

I saw a poll on a friends blog and thought I'd give our readers a chance to cast their thoughts about the gender of this baby. Remember, one doc thinks it's a boy while another thinks it's a girl. What do you think?

We hope to have another ultrasound on Friday...if the baby cooperates, we'll let you know. If not...we'll leave the poll open.

1st Day of "School"

Caden experienced his first day of preschool today. While it was just for the morning and Mommy stayed to help out "Miss" Becky (his teacher), he seemed to really enjoy it.
Caden's classmates: Gabe, Owen, Asher (not pictured)


Circle Time with "Miss" Becky



"choo-choo" to recess train
(the other guys are 3 yrs. old, Caden couldn't reach Owen's shoulders...too cute!)

Caden would prefer to swing all day!

This is mostly just some structured social time for Caden once a week. We don't expect him to participate fully in everything just yet, but thought we'd give him the chance to start learning. We don't have lots of options for playgroups or other special activities, so we take advantage of what we do have. We are blessed to have friends/teammates that are willing to help us make our children's lives as "normal" as possible.

My Birthday

The last two days have been absolutely wonderful! Brett told me that since he couldn't go out and buy me a really good present, he was going to give me the day off. What mom wouldn't love that gift?! Because of other work-related things, we divided up the excitement over two days. Here's a little glimpse of my princess treatment...

Caden helped his daddy pick these flowers from our yard. Aren't they beautiful?! I woke up to these flowers, breakfast in bed, and smiling faces from my boys. In the afternoon, Brett took Caden with him out to a village, giving me time to rest and have the house to myself. Tracey came over with a beautiful cookbook holder that she had made by the iron worker. When Brett and Caden returned home, he brought gifts from the other girls on the team including a cute note pad and Bath&BodyWorks scented hand soaps. Thanks girls! That evening, Brett took me to our favorite restaurant in town and we enjoyed the night just the two of us (thanks Emily for staying with Caden).

Wednesday morning I was woken with smiling faces again and breakfast in bed. This time Brett had made blueberry pancakes (we found frozen blueberries in Accra, Ghana) and brought them with fresh orange juice. Not to mention this was the second morning in a row that I had been treated to sleeping in while Brett got up with Caden, our 6-6:30 riser. And yes, the pancakes were delicious!

That afternoon Brett got in the kitchen to make me a cheesecake, with a little help from Caden (who mostly ate the graham crackers). I woke up from a nap to find the two of them working hard at crushing Petite Beurres (similar to graham crackers) and pecans. You can also see my cookbook holder in this picture. Here's the final product:

And here's my response after the first bite:For dinner, Brett jumped in the kitchen once again to make pizza and salad. It was good for Brett to learn his way around in our new kitchen and he said he actually enjoyed it. He has offered to make pizza night his night to cook dinner once a week! It's the birthday gift that just keeps on giving. Thank you to everyone that made my 29th birthday so special...especially my wonderful, thoughtful husband! (I love you!)

28 weeks

I haven't posted anything on this blog about our trip to Accra, Ghana to check out options for having our baby. We decided to have the baby at Lister Hospital, feel free to read more about it on our Ministry Blog. We also had an ultrasound and were quite disappointed in what the doctor was able to tell us....absolutely nothing! Not exactly true. He did measurements on the baby and said that I was measuring for a due date of November 26th, one week earlier than my original one. He said the baby looks great and my test results all came back good. So what is this "nothing" all about....we couldn't tell what the baby was! The little one was so comfy and curled up that we couldn't determine if it was a girl or boy. And then after much prodding by Brett, the doc finally said, "Well, if I have to say something...I would say it's 70% that it's a girl...but I really can't say." WHAT?! So now we have one doctor betting it's a boy and the other betting it's a girl. We'll keep trying to find out, but as this baby gets bigger, it's only going to be more and more difficult to get him/her to cooperate.

"Cheeeese!"

Caden has learned to say "cheeeese" when posing for a picture. Sometimes you get a very natural smile and then others turn out mostly teeth. This morning, Brett wasn't feeling well and was in bed when Caden crawled up and tucked himself under the covers with his Daddy. So cute! Of course, I had to take a picture and thus began the random photo shoot.

My Very Own Car

I'm sure many of you have been in a grocery store where they have the little cars attached to the grocery cart that keeps your toddler entertained while you get your shopping done. But I bet you would never expect to see them in West Africa...me either! MaxMart in Accra, Ghana knows how to keep their customers coming back...or at least this mommy and daddy.

Our 6th Anniversary

On September 1st, we celebrated our 6th year of being married. We enjoyed a delicious meal at an authentic French restaurant (thanks Dave for keeping Caden) and reminisced over our last 6 years of marriage together. We realized that we have had 6 years packed full of love, laughter, and adventure. We have grown in friendship, trust, and understanding of each other and yet we know God has so much more to teach us. We continue to anticipate what God has planned for us as a family and know that His adventures for us keep getting more exciting.

When we started dating, I never dreamed my life would go the way it has...but I would live it all over again! I love you Brett Emerson and continue to be proud of being your wife and thankful to God for putting you in my life!

Look What I Found...

The other day I went to use the bathroom and lifted up the toilet lid and discovered this....

Can you tell what it is? It's a cloth diaper and diaper cover. Caden has watched me rinse off his cloth diapers in the toilet enough that I guess he thought I'd want this one there (even though it was unused!). I laughed and then told Brett to grab the camera and come here. I have found pieces of paper towel in the toilet too...maybe it's time to try the potty training again.